3 questions to ask yourself before going back to your ex

Some breakups may be inevitable with both parties feeling that the breakup is for the best. There are other breakups however, whereby one of the parties feels that the breakup was a mistake. When one feels this way, they usually start searching for tips on how to get an ex back. If you have found yourself in this position, here are some tough questions that you need to ask yourself if you are

How to recover your man from pornography addiction

The question comes up often-sadly, more often than the question, "How do I break my own porn addiction?" The simple fact is, it's a lot easier to help someone who wants to be helped. If your husband is addicted and unwilling to admit it, then your chances of helping him are pretty small. If he wants help, on the other hand, your chances (and the support you can give him) jump drastically. So let's go through a couple of different scenarios.
Scenario 1: In the first one, a man is hopelessly addicted but refuses to admit it or seek help. The wife, in this case, doesn't have a whole lot of recourse.
The first question to tackle is whether or not to separate. I know women who have done it, and I know women who have had this work. But it doesn't always work. In fact sometimes it makes the problem worse. It could literally tear the family in half without hope of ever mending it again. The whole question of separation because of a porn addiction is something that simply cannot be answered here. It will take a lot of prayer and openness to consider it properly.
As for staying together-you should set some strict rules regarding the media that enters your home. He might not be willing to admit that pornography is wrong, but that doesn't mean you have to enable him. Nothing should come into the house-not even R rated movies that contain nudity. You yourself should also refrain from watching shows that are going to tempt him more. Even something as innocent as figure skating. And any printed pornography should be trashed.
You also have a right to refuse intimacy if your husband looks at pornography. And even more so if he refuses to stop. You can't control his actions, but you can control your own body and demand respect in your marriage.
Scenario 2: If your husband acknowledges he has a problem, but can't seem to break from it, your approach will be a little different. In this case, he's not refusing to quit, he's just failing.
Support goes a long way with addiction... but so does accountability. I know one couple who agreed to a period of abstinence every time the husband fell. 30 days the first time, 60 days the next time, and so on. This might seem to contradict some common beliefs. Many men will claim that if their wives would only give more in the bedroom, then they'd be less tempted by pornography. Nothing is further from the truth. A man must learn to master his passions, and only then can he break from the chains of vice. Especially when it comes to lust.
At the same time, a man and a wife should come together on a fairly regular basis. It is part of marriage. And it does, to a degree, lessen a man's sex drive. Every 2-3 days, a man's body becomes full of certain hormones-thus giving him more drive. A release will come naturally during the night (wet dreams), so it's not like he physically needs sex. But having sex will stifle the natural drive more than a wet dream will.
You should also urge your husband to join a support group-one with other men. Yes, you can hold him accountable. Yes, you can be supportive. But you will never be able to give him the fellowship he needs. That's something that can only come from other men. And it needs to be there if he's going to succeed. Get him to the meetings, and don't ever give him an excuse to skip a night. Often, it will be easier if he doesn't go. He can help with the kids or finish a project. But skipping that one night is always a doorway to skip another night... and another and another. Pretty soon, he's back in his old habits again. Even if he seems to be better and hasn't had a relapse in a while, make sure he goes every week.
As with the first scenario, make sure you have a clean home. Throw away anything that might tempt him. Do not let any pornography come through your door. If there's a problem with the internet, make sure all of your computers are in a well-traveled area, where everyone can see what's on the monitor. If that doesn't help, it might be time to get rid of the internet.
Scenario 3: You think your husband is doing well, but you suspect he's fallen and not told you about it.
This is tough, because a man can only overcome such an addiction if he's honest about it. Dishonesty puts his behavior in darkness, and it worsens there-growing and escalating.
The best way to handle it is to be upfront and tell him exactly how you are feeling. Tell him what you are worried about and why it worries you. But give him an open door to walk through. Encourage openness and honesty. Give him the chance to confess to you without being afraid of your wrath.
All in all, there's no real way to end your husband's addiction to pornography. He must deal with the problem and end it himself. You can only be there for him and try to guide him throughout the process.

How to seduce a woman into loving you

 All men are born with a natural, in-built ability to seduce women. Yet, some men simply don't know how to use it to attract and have sex with the women they want. No matter how hopeless you may think you are at seducing women, I will show you quick and easy ways to start seducing women today.

You don't have to be experienced with women to use these techniques, but I will point out that understanding how to seduce a woman is one of the first steps in becoming a man. Without knowing how to seduce women, you may often be left to watch in frustration and despair as another guy comes along and seduces the woman you secretly wish you could have.

After experiencing a few bad rejections from women you really like, you may end up thinking that women just aren't that attracted and interested in you. Worse, you may even start thinking that there is something wrong with you. There is nothing wrong with you - you simply need to make a few changes to what you are saying and doing around women and they will immediately start showing more loving and sexual interest in you.

How to Seduce a Woman Into Loving You

To seduce a woman into loving you, you simply need to make her feel strong, desirable emotions when around you. There are many ways to do this, but let me give you one technique that you can use right away.

Imagine that you're talking to the woman you want to seduce right now. After a few minutes of conversation, she says:

Her: "Hey, you’re a really interesting guy...why aren't more men like you?! Other guys are so boring..."

At this point in the conversation, you could respond with a normal, polite and safe, "Thank you" and even go onto explain why you're different (I highly recommend you don't do that by the way). However, if you want to seduce a woman into loving you and having sex with you, then you need to respond in a more confident, playful way to make her feel the type of strong, desirable emotions she wants to feel around a man.

Instead of making polite, everyday conversation and making her feel nothing, if you want to seduce a woman, make sure you reply with something like:

You: "Thanks, but compliments like those won’t score you any easy points to get me into bed. I’m not that easy y'know!"

Her: "Ha ha!"

You: "I mean, I have feelings...I’m not just a piece of meat. Damn, why does every beautiful woman I meet just treat me like a sex toy?"

Note: I've included the word 'beautiful' because women see it is charming when it say it in that kind of funny way. While you are being challenging, funny and flirtatious, you are also being charming by talking in this way. This drives a woman wild.

Her: "Ha ha!"

Also by taking this approach to a conversation, you are switching the roles and making it feel like she is trying to seduce you and pick you up. The excitement, humor, confusion, nervousness, happiness and amazement she will be feeling in the moment will all add up to her feeling strong, desirable emotions around you.

So that is one great example of how to seduce a woman. Keep reading if you want to learn more!

How to Seduce a Woman Into Having Sex With You
To seduce a woman into having sex with you, you BOTH must be experiencing sexual desire around each other. If you want to have sex with her and she doesn't want to have it with you, then you'll be the only one feeling sexual desire.

The best way to make a woman feel sexual desire and want to release the tension by having sex with you, is to make her feel like she has to work at getting you interested in her. Most guys make the mistake of trying to get women interested in them, but the guys who are naturally good with women always do it the other way around.

This is why you see women chasing after normal, average-looking guys and wonder "How did he get her interested?" It's pretty simple, once you know how to do it...