How to tell your partner you are tired of sex!

There is no easy way to tell your partner that you are too tired to have sex. Your partner is doing nothing wrong by coming on to you. That is what your partner is supposed to be doing. The person coming on to you is your partner and all. Wouldn’t you rather your partner come on to you than come on to someone else? It is okay to tell your partner that you are too tired to have sex every once in a while but if you find yourself constantly doing it, you may have a little problem. Your partner may look else where to satisfy his needs.
Right now I am going to go over a polite way to tell your partner you are too tired for sex.

Explain Your Day:
When you are feeling as though you are too tired to have sex with your lover the best way to go about it is to start by explaining your day. Tell your partner what you did. Maybe you worked a really long day with no breaks, or maybe you just came home from a long car ride and all you want to do is go to sleep. No matter what the situation is you need to sell it to your partner. I say sell it because that is what you are doing. Think about it. What would you be thinking if you were turned down? I’m sure you would feel defended, shut down, and maybe a little uncomfortable. This is exactly what your partner is feeling, and this is why it is so important to try to make your partner not feel this way.

Reestablish Your Connection
Tell your partner how you feel about your relationship and how you still feel for your him/her. That not having sex at that particular moment has nothing to do with the fact that you still want your partner all of the time. It has nothing to do with the fact that you love each other. And it has nothing to do with the way your partner looks because obviously you are extremely attracted to one another because that is why you are together! I know you are thinking that you should not have to tell your partner this when you do not want to have sex. You probably think that your partner should just assume all of these things because of all the time you have spent with one another. But you really do. Here iswhy. Your partner needs this reassurance. The reason you are not having sex with your partner is simply because you are too tired and not for any other reason at all. Communicate this with your partner as much as you can before you go to sleep. I know you get tired, but your partner is worth this little conversation believe me.

Make It Positive
After you tell your partner you do not want to have sex because you are too tired, tell your partner that you really want him/her and that the first chance you get that you will. It is just that you are simply too tired to at that moment. Maybe you can say after work tomorrow we will. Then tell your partner that you will be looking forward to it all day. When you are at work call your partner and tell him/her that you are looking forward to when when you get off so you can have sex.
You can even just text message your partner this.
Remember that your partner is with you because he/she chooses to be. At any time your partner can decide that you are not the right person for him/her so if you really want to make your partner happy you need to go the extra mile by putting in this type of effort.
Declining your partner sex can really affect a relationship if you do not go about it the right.