The very nature of sex requires two bodies to meet in a potentially friction restricted way. This is where sex lubricants are used to reduce friction and enhance pleasure.
What are Sex Lubricants
Sex lubricants, sometimes referred to as personal lubricants are specially designed lubricants for use during sexual activities. In a similar manner to conventional lubricants sex lubricants are designed to eliminate friction between two surfaces. All modern sex lubricants have evolved from surgical lubricants such as KY Cream that were widely used during vaginal or anal examinations to facilitate access for the surgeon and reduce discomfort for the patient. Although designed primarily as a surgical lubricant KY quickly became recognized as a great lubricant when engaging in sexual practices. In recent years a number of companies developed and marketed a range of products specifically designed to be used as sex lubricants.
Water Based Sex Lubricants
Water based lubricants are water soluble and are generally considered to be the type that is least likely to lead to skin irritation. Early water based lubes were cellulose based products but further developments has seen the addition of various agent to improve theLubricants performance. These agents improve spreading properties and resistance to contamination.
One problem with earlier water based lubricants was their tendency to dry up during use, fortunately adding a small amount of water reactivates them. More advanced products contain dimethicone that prolongs the lubricating properties and reduces drying up.
Please note that water based lubricants are not compatible with sex practices that occur in water, as such if you enjoy sex in the bath these products are not right for you.
Oil Based Sex Lubricants
Oil based lubricants aren't widely used nowadays due to a number of problems. Unlike water based lubricants oil products weaken latex and can subsequently weaken latex condoms. Additionally oil based lubricants have a tendency to coat and stick to surfaces for prolonged periods providing a breeding ground for bacteria that can later lead to infection. As such it isgenerally accepted that oil based lubricants are not safe for vaginal sex and should only be used for anal sex where it is known that both parties are free from STD's.
To conclude oil based products such as Vaseline and baby oil may be easily available and relative cheap but the associated medical risks far outweigh any financial benefit.
Silicone Based Lubricants
The hydrophobic nature of silicone base lubricants technically makes them oil based. However most have been specially designed to be chemicallycompatible with latex condoms. The advantage of silicone sex lubricants is that they remain slippery for longer periods, the disadvantage however is that they cannot be used with silicone sex toys.
Uses of Sex Lubricants
Whilst historically medical lubricants such as Ky Jelly were used to assist during medical procedures such as gynaecological and rectalexaminations modern sex lubricants are specifically designed to increase pleasure of sexual practices. The lubricants can be applied to either the penis or sex toys to aid penetration during vaginal intercourse. Particularly applicable to women that experience vaginal dryness or contraction.Lubricants are also used to increase the pleasure of anal sex, simplifying entry and increasing pleasure for both parties.
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Monday, October 10, 2011
Hidden facts you don't know about your vagina unveiled here
Sure, your vagina has been with you your entire life, but how much do you actually know about it? Whether you've been too shy to ask or don't know where to look for information, chances are there are plenty of things that you've wondered about the
Saturday, September 10, 2011
What you need to know about female condoms
Few days ago use of female contraception was very rare. But due to growing awareness about various kinds of STDs, women are regularly using condoms for girls and vagina condoms. The decision taken by them to utilize various female contraception measures has shown that they are also more responsible and mature.
But only using condom is not enough. Using condom in a proper and correct manner is very essential to achieve complete female contraception. There are various kinds of condoms for women available in
But only using condom is not enough. Using condom in a proper and correct manner is very essential to achieve complete female contraception. There are various kinds of condoms for women available in
Friday, September 9, 2011
About young christian ladies and Pre-Marital sex
In our each day lives, single Christian girls and men have discovered comfort and satisfaction with the corporation of their boyfriends and girlfriends, so considerably so that they have turn out to be emotionally dependent on just about every other. Nevertheless most usually than not, this emotional and bodily closeness has uncovered them to the probable penalties and potential risks of pre-marital intercourse.
The virtue of virginity has been with us since the Roman medieval instances when kings, queens,
The virtue of virginity has been with us since the Roman medieval instances when kings, queens,
Thursday, August 11, 2011
Proven techniques on how to last longer in Bed
Are you among the thousands of men out there looking for last longer in bed techniques? Are you afraid that you will never be able to totally please a woman and therefore you will end up single, without a sex partner? If you answered "Yes" to these two questions then this article will assist you. I am going to share with you two techniques to help you improve your sexual stamina.
But First You Must Understand The "Point Of No Return" Arousal Stage
There are four stages of arousal during sex but the stage you need to be concerned with for sake of the two techniques in this article is the "Point Of No Return" stage. This is the stage where you can no longer hold back. There is nothing you can do to stop the ejaculation. When you hit this stage it is game over. The secret to longer lasting sex is your ability to recognize when you are at the point "Just prior to" the "Point of no return" so you can stop and lower your level of arousal.
2 Techniques To Improve Sexual Stamina
Technique #1: The Stop And Squeeze
This is a masturbation exercise that will require some time and some privacy. You start out masturbating and when you get to the point just prior to the "Point of no return" then you stoke stroking and you squeeze the 'Rim' of the head of the penis extremely hard with your first two fingers on the underneath side and your thumb on the topside. The purpose is to lower your arousal level. I can tell you that it will lower it very quickly.
Once you have lowered your arousal level, continue stroking again and repeat the "Squeeze" technique when you get just prior to the "Point of no return" again. Squeeze until the arousal level is lowered and repeat again. You can do this process as many times as you like but it is recommended that you do at least 4 to 5 repetitions.
Let Her Help You
If you want to involve your partner you could let her stroke the penis for you or perform oral sex. You do not want to use intercourse as this will make it too hard to control the arousal. When you feel yourself getting just prior to the "Point of no return" then stop her and let her be the one to "Squeeze" your penis rim. Make sure she squeezes firmly. The harder the squeeze the quicker the lowering of the arousal level. Again, repeat 4 to 5 repetitions before finally ejaculating.
Technique #2: The Shower Stop And Squeeze
The technique is the same. The only difference now is that we are going to simulate a vagina by using the hot water from the shower. Both the warmth and the moisture can be simulated here. This is one step above the regular "Stop and Squeeze" exercise because of the added moisture and warmth.
Make sure to complete 4 to 5 repetitions before ejaculating. Also try to focus on slow stroking and controlled breathing. By focusing on these two items it takes your mind off of the early ejaculation. However, pay close attention to your arousal level.
Like before, you can allow your partner to assist you. With this exercise it is okay to finish off by having intercourse in the shower. Just make sure your partner is aware that this is an exercise to help you last longer, not please her sexually. Also make sure you get sufficient repetitions in before the final ejaculation.
When it comes to last longer in bed techniques the above two are very worthwhile in assisting you to increase your lasting time. Invite your partner to help you but make sure she is aware that her involvement is to help you, not please her. Use these techniques often and in a short time you will see great results!
But First You Must Understand The "Point Of No Return" Arousal Stage
There are four stages of arousal during sex but the stage you need to be concerned with for sake of the two techniques in this article is the "Point Of No Return" stage. This is the stage where you can no longer hold back. There is nothing you can do to stop the ejaculation. When you hit this stage it is game over. The secret to longer lasting sex is your ability to recognize when you are at the point "Just prior to" the "Point of no return" so you can stop and lower your level of arousal.
2 Techniques To Improve Sexual Stamina
Technique #1: The Stop And Squeeze
This is a masturbation exercise that will require some time and some privacy. You start out masturbating and when you get to the point just prior to the "Point of no return" then you stoke stroking and you squeeze the 'Rim' of the head of the penis extremely hard with your first two fingers on the underneath side and your thumb on the topside. The purpose is to lower your arousal level. I can tell you that it will lower it very quickly.
Once you have lowered your arousal level, continue stroking again and repeat the "Squeeze" technique when you get just prior to the "Point of no return" again. Squeeze until the arousal level is lowered and repeat again. You can do this process as many times as you like but it is recommended that you do at least 4 to 5 repetitions.
Let Her Help You
If you want to involve your partner you could let her stroke the penis for you or perform oral sex. You do not want to use intercourse as this will make it too hard to control the arousal. When you feel yourself getting just prior to the "Point of no return" then stop her and let her be the one to "Squeeze" your penis rim. Make sure she squeezes firmly. The harder the squeeze the quicker the lowering of the arousal level. Again, repeat 4 to 5 repetitions before finally ejaculating.
Technique #2: The Shower Stop And Squeeze
The technique is the same. The only difference now is that we are going to simulate a vagina by using the hot water from the shower. Both the warmth and the moisture can be simulated here. This is one step above the regular "Stop and Squeeze" exercise because of the added moisture and warmth.
Make sure to complete 4 to 5 repetitions before ejaculating. Also try to focus on slow stroking and controlled breathing. By focusing on these two items it takes your mind off of the early ejaculation. However, pay close attention to your arousal level.
Like before, you can allow your partner to assist you. With this exercise it is okay to finish off by having intercourse in the shower. Just make sure your partner is aware that this is an exercise to help you last longer, not please her sexually. Also make sure you get sufficient repetitions in before the final ejaculation.
When it comes to last longer in bed techniques the above two are very worthwhile in assisting you to increase your lasting time. Invite your partner to help you but make sure she is aware that her involvement is to help you, not please her. Use these techniques often and in a short time you will see great results!
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Friday, August 5, 2011
4 things to consider when performing oral sex
Oral sex is as much fun as sexual intercourse itself. It is a good form of foreplay. It helps set the mood for both you and your partner, preparing you for the sensual ride ahead. To make the moment more enjoyable and satisfying, here are some simple things to be considered before oral sex is performed.
For safety's sake, make sure you both are safe. Make sure you don't have cuts and wounds in your privates, as well as in your mouth. It's better to practice caution than to do something hastily and have a lifetime of regret afterward. After all, prevention is better than the cure.
Next is about your hygiene. Both you and your partner should be squeaky clean. It would not hurt that you two shower together. It will make the experience a lot more intimate. You two can even start stroking and caressing each other in the shower. It will help make you feel more relaxed and at ease. But have self-restraint. You would not want to be finished even before the deed is done.
Third is about the location. It should be somewhere comfortable for the two of you. It can be on the couch, on the floor, or on the bed. It can be anywhere. It's up to you to if you would rather do it in less conventional venues. Just make sure the spot you will choose is safe. And most of all, choose a place where you would not be caught. Unless, of course, you prefer it to be that way.
And last but certainly not the least is the performance. You should lose your inhibitions and unleash the sexual beast in you. When performing oral sex, do not hesitate to please. Do not shy away from pleasing someone else. Touch your partner in the right places. Hold each other in the most intimate way. Be gentle when going down. But you can always be playful. Treat each other's genitals as if it's honey or a sweet lollipop; as if it's a treasure found. Make your partner moan in satisfaction. Don't stop until your partner reaches climax. And make sure your partner ask for more. Then when everything's done, you can start all over again. Or you can proceed to something more sensual and sexual.
So there you go. These are four simple things to contemplate upon before performing oral sex with your partner. Be sure to mind them so you'll have an unforgettable, most satisfying, most intimate experience. Performing such sexual acts should always be done safely and responsibly. Remember, if it's safe and responsible, then the fun will not only last for a minute. You can look back on it with no regrets and with a satisfied smile on your face.
For safety's sake, make sure you both are safe. Make sure you don't have cuts and wounds in your privates, as well as in your mouth. It's better to practice caution than to do something hastily and have a lifetime of regret afterward. After all, prevention is better than the cure.
Next is about your hygiene. Both you and your partner should be squeaky clean. It would not hurt that you two shower together. It will make the experience a lot more intimate. You two can even start stroking and caressing each other in the shower. It will help make you feel more relaxed and at ease. But have self-restraint. You would not want to be finished even before the deed is done.
Third is about the location. It should be somewhere comfortable for the two of you. It can be on the couch, on the floor, or on the bed. It can be anywhere. It's up to you to if you would rather do it in less conventional venues. Just make sure the spot you will choose is safe. And most of all, choose a place where you would not be caught. Unless, of course, you prefer it to be that way.
And last but certainly not the least is the performance. You should lose your inhibitions and unleash the sexual beast in you. When performing oral sex, do not hesitate to please. Do not shy away from pleasing someone else. Touch your partner in the right places. Hold each other in the most intimate way. Be gentle when going down. But you can always be playful. Treat each other's genitals as if it's honey or a sweet lollipop; as if it's a treasure found. Make your partner moan in satisfaction. Don't stop until your partner reaches climax. And make sure your partner ask for more. Then when everything's done, you can start all over again. Or you can proceed to something more sensual and sexual.
So there you go. These are four simple things to contemplate upon before performing oral sex with your partner. Be sure to mind them so you'll have an unforgettable, most satisfying, most intimate experience. Performing such sexual acts should always be done safely and responsibly. Remember, if it's safe and responsible, then the fun will not only last for a minute. You can look back on it with no regrets and with a satisfied smile on your face.
Monday, June 13, 2011
How to tell your partner you are tired of sex!
There is no easy way to tell your partner that you are too tired to have sex. Your partner is doing nothing wrong by coming on to you. That is what your partner is supposed to be doing. The person coming on to you is your partner and all. Wouldn’t you rather your partner come on to you than come on to someone else? It is okay to tell your partner that you are too tired to have sex every once in a while but if you find yourself constantly doing it, you may have a little problem. Your partner may look else where to satisfy his needs.
Right now I am going to go over a polite way to tell your partner you are too tired for sex.
Explain Your Day:
When you are feeling as though you are too tired to have sex with your lover the best way to go about it is to start by explaining your day. Tell your partner what you did. Maybe you worked a really long day with no breaks, or maybe you just came home from a long car ride and all you want to do is go to sleep. No matter what the situation is you need to sell it to your partner. I say sell it because that is what you are doing. Think about it. What would you be thinking if you were turned down? I’m sure you would feel defended, shut down, and maybe a little uncomfortable. This is exactly what your partner is feeling, and this is why it is so important to try to make your partner not feel this way.
Reestablish Your Connection
Tell your partner how you feel about your relationship and how you still feel for your him/her. That not having sex at that particular moment has nothing to do with the fact that you still want your partner all of the time. It has nothing to do with the fact that you love each other. And it has nothing to do with the way your partner looks because obviously you are extremely attracted to one another because that is why you are together! I know you are thinking that you should not have to tell your partner this when you do not want to have sex. You probably think that your partner should just assume all of these things because of all the time you have spent with one another. But you really do. Here iswhy. Your partner needs this reassurance. The reason you are not having sex with your partner is simply because you are too tired and not for any other reason at all. Communicate this with your partner as much as you can before you go to sleep. I know you get tired, but your partner is worth this little conversation believe me.
Make It Positive
After you tell your partner you do not want to have sex because you are too tired, tell your partner that you really want him/her and that the first chance you get that you will. It is just that you are simply too tired to at that moment. Maybe you can say after work tomorrow we will. Then tell your partner that you will be looking forward to it all day. When you are at work call your partner and tell him/her that you are looking forward to when when you get off so you can have sex.
You can even just text message your partner this.
Remember that your partner is with you because he/she chooses to be. At any time your partner can decide that you are not the right person for him/her so if you really want to make your partner happy you need to go the extra mile by putting in this type of effort.
Declining your partner sex can really affect a relationship if you do not go about it the right.
Right now I am going to go over a polite way to tell your partner you are too tired for sex.
Explain Your Day:
When you are feeling as though you are too tired to have sex with your lover the best way to go about it is to start by explaining your day. Tell your partner what you did. Maybe you worked a really long day with no breaks, or maybe you just came home from a long car ride and all you want to do is go to sleep. No matter what the situation is you need to sell it to your partner. I say sell it because that is what you are doing. Think about it. What would you be thinking if you were turned down? I’m sure you would feel defended, shut down, and maybe a little uncomfortable. This is exactly what your partner is feeling, and this is why it is so important to try to make your partner not feel this way.
Reestablish Your Connection
Tell your partner how you feel about your relationship and how you still feel for your him/her. That not having sex at that particular moment has nothing to do with the fact that you still want your partner all of the time. It has nothing to do with the fact that you love each other. And it has nothing to do with the way your partner looks because obviously you are extremely attracted to one another because that is why you are together! I know you are thinking that you should not have to tell your partner this when you do not want to have sex. You probably think that your partner should just assume all of these things because of all the time you have spent with one another. But you really do. Here iswhy. Your partner needs this reassurance. The reason you are not having sex with your partner is simply because you are too tired and not for any other reason at all. Communicate this with your partner as much as you can before you go to sleep. I know you get tired, but your partner is worth this little conversation believe me.
Make It Positive
After you tell your partner you do not want to have sex because you are too tired, tell your partner that you really want him/her and that the first chance you get that you will. It is just that you are simply too tired to at that moment. Maybe you can say after work tomorrow we will. Then tell your partner that you will be looking forward to it all day. When you are at work call your partner and tell him/her that you are looking forward to when when you get off so you can have sex.
You can even just text message your partner this.
Remember that your partner is with you because he/she chooses to be. At any time your partner can decide that you are not the right person for him/her so if you really want to make your partner happy you need to go the extra mile by putting in this type of effort.
Declining your partner sex can really affect a relationship if you do not go about it the right.
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