Friday, September 9, 2011

How to get your Girlfriend back

Have you ever been in love? Because you are reading this article you probably have. In fact, most of us have been in love at some point of our lives. Also, for some reason or another, most of us have lost a love as well.
A person grows old and with age comes change. Because of these changes, it might lead us to a different path in life and what we were used to do not happen anymore. For these reasons we think that it is better to end a relationship because it is not what you want anymore or what your partner
wants.
However, the main reason for the death of the relationship is not because of the changes that have happened in each other's life but the lack of understanding from both parties. Because of this, it is not necessarily too late to change that now.
Here are three different approaches on how to win your ex back, depending on your situation.
1. When it comes to women, they are usually more emotional than men and that is why the recovering from a break up often takes longer compared to men.
If you want to win your ex back after a few days of your break-up, all you have to do is to make her feel that you are still there and that you are not over here. Acting on emotion is an excuse that has worked for a lot of men already and if you have not used it yet, there is a first time for everything.
2. If your break up is not so recent, the approach should be a little bit different. First of all, you have to be aware of whether your ex is seeing someone else or not. If she isn't, the most effective way to get her back is admitting your own mistakes. Just make sure she knows how sorry you are and that you are willing to make necessary changes in order to get her back.
However, you have to be careful not overusing this strategy. Nevertheless, knowing your own mistakes and showing your ex that you are more mature now is very effective way to get your girlfriend back.
3. When your ex is already with someone else, that is much harder to deal with because she has something else to focus on. Normally, telling your ex that you are sorry will have worked. But this time, trying to bring up all the happy moments and the good times that you have is essential.
You will have to come up with surprises to win your ex back. The secret here is to let her miss you so much and make her realize that it is you that she wants and not the new guy that she is currently with.

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