Real Reasons why women lose respect for men in a relationship

If a woman loses respect for you as a man, she will
also lose attraction and begin to fall out of love with
you.
photoIt might've taken you a long time to find "the
one" that you're now in love with, but unless you're
careful about avoiding the following mistakes, she'll
soon be thinking about backing out of the
relationship for good. Let's have some clues...
1. Belittling Her in Public
Playful teasing each other in private can be a fun
aspect to your relationship, especially if it's kept light
and you both have understand each other's sense of
humor. Too often though, some men will belittle their
woman in front of their friends or family in a way that
she feels is cruel and sincerely harmful to her
confidence and sense of pride and comfort in front of
others.
In an effort to "show off" to his friends or because he
believes that some "habit" his girl has is silly, some
guys will say hurtful things about their girlfriend/
wife. Even if it's done when she's not there, what the
man says about his woman is probably going to get
back to her eventually and she will feel betrayed and
lose respect for him when it does.
2. Being Too Bossy
Women like to have their man be the head of the
relationship, but when he starts getting too bossy
and treating her like a slave or a servant, that's when
she will begin to lose respect for him.
Being bossy sets in when it has to do with house
chores. If you want your relationship to last, you
should let your girl do much of the housework, while
you spontaneously help out with the housework, but
focus mainly on doing the "manly" jobs around the
house, making the big decisions and basically
leading the relationship. However, when the man
decides that he's the "boss" and his woman has to
do whatever he demands of her as if he "owns" her,
she will lose respect for him and want out; especially
if their sex life isn't that fulfilling for her either.
3. Always Letting Her "Win"
On the opposite side of being too bossy, some guys
will give in to whatever a woman wants because he is
too fearful of losing her if he doesn't yield to her
every whim and desire. While it's true that a woman
will usually "test" you to see how much she can "get
away with," what she really wants is reassurance
that you are in-charge of their relationship by seeing
that you don't agree to her every request.
If it gets to the point where her man agrees with her
every request or "demand," especially out of fear of
her leaving him, she will walk all over him until she
eventually loses all respect for him. She'll then fall
into the arms of another man who will show her who
is truly "in charge" of their relationship. Girls may act
like they want to be the boss in this new age of
independent women who can do whatever they want,
but deep down they all want a man who is a man and
who can and will continually take the lead in a
relationship. Any bros out there fumbling..., c'mon
dude you the man, act up!
4. Being Weak or Submissive Around Other Men
This one point you must not toy with. A woman is
always watching to see how much of a man a guy
really is. One of the best ways a woman can see how
strong (mentally and emotionally) a guy is, is to
watch him interact with other men. Whether he's
chatting to men at a party or talking to a male shop
attendant in a store, the woman is watching to see if
he acts submissively and places the other man/men
above him in terms of dominance. If he bosses her
around at home, but let's most (if not all) other guys
boss him around outside of the home, she will lose
respect for him instanta and won't want to "follow his
orders" at home - even akpos no go gree if na you
date am!
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men respect and women love and lust after, please
read wide about being an alpha male. You'll be
surprised at how easy it is to be the alpha male in a
situation and how much your life will improve, not
only with women, but at work (or study) and around
friends and family. I no say make you turn
commando...abeg na nigeria police go carry you
shine! Life is completely different when, everywhere
you go, people look up to you and respect you. Good
things will just start happening to you all of the time.
Doors open up for you and women just naturally
want to be with you. There's no need to try to get a
woman attracted – she already is because you're
alpha bravo - just saying.
5. Being Suspicious of Her Every Move
Trust is essential for the health of a relationship.
Without it, all sorts of problems begin to emerge.
One of the fastest ways to erode and eventually
destroy the trust in a relationship is to become
suspicious and overly protective of your woman.
Regularly accusing her of wanting to cheat or of
doing things behind your back will only lead to a
breakdown of trust and a halt to the flow of love in
the relationship.
Whether she's legitimately working with a male co-
worker on a project, going out with her friends to the
movies or to do some shopping or running errands,
some guys will find it difficult, if not impossible, to
trust their woman unless they are with her. In an
effort to control and keep tabs on her, some guys will
stay in constant contact with their woman to find out
where she is and what she is doing, snoop on her e-
mails and phone messages to see if any guys are
saying anything that could mean she wants to be
more than "just friends" with them and so on.
Women find this to be a major turn-off because they
aren't attracted to men who desperately need them
for their emotional security and feelings of self-worth.
My advice get yourself busy looking for money.
6. Whining Like a Victim
For a variety of reasons, a man might find that his life
plans are suddenly in jeopardy (e.g. he loses a job,
his shares/stocks/investments plummet and lose
tremendous value, he gets caught up in heated
disagreements with family or friends, etc.). It's
understandable that when things go wrong like that,
a man might want to talk about his problems with his
woman, but when he whines and complains like a
victim without looking for solutions, a woman's
respect for him will quickly dwindle not every lady
though but it good you brace up. Everyone has
disappointments and problems that have to be dealt
with, but some men will let it destroy them by
dwelling on it and acting like a "victim of life."
When a man is in a relationship, he should
sometimes seek his woman's advice to see how she
feels and what she thinks might be a good way of
tackling a problem. Even if he doesn't follow her
suggestions, but instead weighs them up as a
possible solution against his ideas, a woman will
greatly appreciate that her opinion matters to him
and that he is actively trying to find a way to resolve
his problems instead of moping, whining and
complaining, but not actively seeking a solution.
Boys complain and whine, while men decide and act.
7. Lying
Being able to rely on you to be truthful and live with
integrity is one of the most important things to a
woman when in a relationship with you. It doesn't
matter if it's a "little white lie" to "keep out of trouble
with her" or a major fib that, if discovered, will have
life-altering ramifications, most women won't
tolerate their man routinely being dishonest. In fact,
once your woman has caught you lying, she will
never be able to fully rely on you again. She will not
be able to see you as her "rock" or her man of stone
and her respect for you will diminish.
Personally speaking, I've been able to consistently
win arguments with my girlfriends and consistently
stop women from putting heat on me about
something, simply by saying, "Hey, have I ever lied
to you? I always tell you the truth, right?" and the
woman then has to give in and smile. From there,
she can rely on you to lead her with the integrity and
strength of a true alpha male. So, as a general rule, I
recommend you just tell it how it is with women.
Don't lie, don't cheat and don't pretend to be
something you're not. Be the straight up, cool guy
that you are and everything will be fine. But some
girls like lie lie sha don't fall deep into it least you
turn a pathological liar - just learn how to garnish it.