The secrets of being a good kisser unveiled

Sensual, s*xy lip-to-lip is a lost art for many of us
who find ourselves face-to-face with a new amour.
And I'd put money on it that jaded pros of French
kissing could stand to refine their technique.
So let's get right down to the essentials of what
will add a French flavor to your lips:
The Timing
The best lovers of the world (who, by the way, are
rarely French) are masters of timing. They know
how to milk the yearning by barely brushing their
lips against yours, and they know precisely when
to go in, full-throttled, for the kill. While sense of
timing may be a genetically inherited trait shared
among musicians, comedians and successful
stockbrokers, one can learn the basics by paying
close attention your partner's breathing. If he is
panting and breathless, experiment with Exhibit A
below.
Exhibit A(The Lusty French Kiss)
This kiss needs no warm-up. You want your partner
and your partner wants you, as evidenced by your
collective, animal-like panting. Your tongue is
already in his mouth before you realize that you're
kissing. But now what? Slowly — and I mean slowly
— roll your tongue in circles around your partner's.
Thrust shallow, thrust deep. Then circle again. Tilt
your head to the other side, and repeat. Playfully
bite his lower lip, then lick his lips. Try different
variations of the above. The combinations are
endless.
If your date has calm and predictable inhalations,
give Exhibit B a shot.
Exhibit B (The Coy French Kiss)
This kiss needs coaxing, as evident by your
partner's mellow breathing. Start with his lips.
With the tip of your tongue lick his top lip, then
kiss him softly, no tongue. Next, taste his lower lip,
then brush both your lips back and forth, and up
and down his. Gaze seductively into your partner's
eyes — eye contact usually helps rev up the
respiratory system. Next, add a little panting and
moaning to your efforts. Finally, ease your tongue
between his lips, slipping in and out. Continue in
this coy manner until you reach the point where
the lusty French kiss takes over (see above). Then
alternate between the coy and lusty kisses. You
see, variety and surprise are what ultimately make
a French kiss more than just a kiss.
The Mechanics
The first rule of French kissing is that every woman
has her own style. This style evolves out of a
combination of your mouth's unique anatomy,
including the length of your tongue and how far
your jaw will open, as well as your level of s*xual
aggression and personal tastes. Regardless, the
mechanics are all the same: Tilt your head to one
side, part your lips, slip your tongue into your
mate's parting lips, then explore what's inside.
Breathe through your nose (or your mouth if your
nose is stuffy). Once you've got the basic
mechanics down, it's time to experiment with
technique.
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